Pride. Nowadays, all you have to do is say the word, and people immediately recognise it as shorthand for ‘LGBT Pride’. So, what is LGBT? On lesbian and gay pride demonstrations in the 1970s and early 1980s, the most common badge on display was the ‘pink triangle’ – in memory of the persecution of gay men by the Nazis ( And then, by the late 1980s the ‘rainbow flag’, first designed in 1978 by Gilbert Baker of San Francisco ( , had become the dominant emblem, proclaiming, an alliance of solidarity, encompassing ‘lesbian’, ‘gay’, ‘bisexual’ and ‘transgender’ people – hence: LGBT.

While ‘bisexual’ challenges binary assumptions concerning sexual orientation, the inclusion of ‘transgender’ acknowledges the more fundamental issue of gender. For years, lesbians and gay men had been asserting that being lesbian and gay was not just about who you ‘slept with’, and had been presenting ourselves in ways that challenged binary ‘female’/’male’ gender stereotypes. Now, those whose main concern was gender rather than sexuality were coming to the fore.

Since the 1967 Sexual Offences Act decriminalised ‘homosexual acts’ between two consenting males over the age of 21 in private, and the progressive lowering of the ‘gay’ age of consent from 21, to 18 (1994), to 16 (2000), new laws have recognised the transgender phenomenon – principally, the 2004 Gender Recognition Act, which provides a mechanism to enable trans people to obtain recognition of their preferred gender. More recently, the 2010 Equality Act makes it unlawful to discriminate against someone in employment and the provision of goods, services, housing and facilities because they are intending to undergo, are undergoing, or have undergone gender reassignment.

Just as the 2005 Civil Partnership Act and now the 2013 Marriage (Same-Sex Couples) Act, both reflect and reinforce the increasing social recognition of lesbian and gay relationships, the same can be said of the legal acknowledgement and protection of trans people. But transgender is more complex than many realise. On one level, transgender refers, simply, to those who make the decision to transition from the gender assigned to them at birth to the gender with which they identify. But while those transitioning undergo hormone treatment, they don’t always choose surgical adjustment. Further, since the 1990s, the emergence of a ‘queer’ consciousness has been challenging gender binary tyranny. In recognition, of those of varying sexualities and genders, who consider themselves primarily as, ‘gender queer’ or ‘variant’, LGBT has been extended to encompass ‘Q’. The rainbow umbrella has also been extended further to include those who are ‘intersex’ in their internal and/or external sexual characteristics – hence: LGBTQI.

The notion of an ever more encompassing rainbow – recently extended even further, with an extra, ‘Q’ to acknowledge those who are ‘questioning’ of their gender and/or sexuality – is very cheering. Until you become aware of the extent of homophobia and transphobia – which, if anything, has increased, in response to the heightened visibility of LGBTQIQ people.  In recent years, November 20 has been designated as Transgender Day of Remembrance in honour of Rita Hester, a transgender woman of colour, who was murdered in her home in Allston, Mass., USA, on November 28, 1998. Human Rights Campaign, which works for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender rights, states on its website: ‘TDOR … provides a forum for transgender communities and allies to raise awareness of the threat of violence faced by gender variant people and the persistence of prejudice felt by the transgender community. Communities organize events and activities including town hall style “teach-ins,” photography and poetry exhibits and candlelit vigils. These activities make anti-transgender violence visible to stakeholders like police, the media and elected officials.’ (

Originating in the USA, TDOR will be marked in towns and cities across that nation. It has also gone global, and events have been organised in the UK, in Brighton, Croydon, Coventry and Edinburgh, in Ontario, Canada, Umea, Sweden – and in Tel Aviv, Israel, at the LGBT centre in Meir Garden. Of course, TDOR will not be commemorated in the 81 countries that continue to criminalise LGBT people – including, 37 African nations, 22 nations of the Middle East and Asia, 11 nations in the Americas, and 10 nations in Oceania. In addition, while not outlawing ‘homosexuality’, in 2013, Russia enacted an ‘anti-gay propaganda law’ (  – updated in June 2014 to a list of 81 countries).

So, LGBTQIQ: A tale of progress and inclusion; and also a story of continuing persecution – and not just in those places where persecution is enshrined in the law. For statistics on homophobic, biphobic and transphobic hate crimes in ‘progressive’ London, for example, see

In October 2012, the Rainbow Jews project was launched with support from Liberal Judaism and funding from the Heritage Lottery. Recording Jewish LGBT history from the 1950s to today, the project has produced a film, an exhibition and educational materials ( There are some who think that there is nothing in Jewish teaching that acknowledges LGBT life. I would refer these people to – and also to, for example, the discussions of ‘intersex’ by the sages, which amount to hundreds of references in the Mishnah and Talmud alone (e.g. Mishnah Bikkurim 4:5), and to the volume of Torah commentaries, Torah Queeries, edited by Greg Drinkwater, Joshua Lesser and David Shneer (New York University Press, 2009).

On the theme of the Torah: In December, the Torah-reading cycle will turn to the four-portion-long saga of Joseph (Genesis 37-50) and his special coat – k’tonnet passim – which is clearly designated as the ‘garment of a Princess’ elsewhere in the Bible (Second Book of Samuel 13:18). The figure of Joseph, presented as ‘beautiful of form and beautiful in appearance’ (Gen. 39:6), just like his mother Rachel (Gen. 29:17), invites us to question our gender assumptions. As they say, ‘there is nothing new under the sun’ – and there is only one sun that shines on us all, LGBTQIQ and heterosexual, Jews and non-Jews alike. It’s just a question of opening our hearts and minds and transforming our perspective.


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