Learning From the Rhythm and Qualities of Yom Kippur 5787
The ten-day journey that began on Rosh Ha-Shanah has reached its destination. We have arrived at Yom Kippur. We have stepped out of the insistent rush of our 24/7 existence in order to embark on an otherworldly journey; one that we take slowly, prayer by prayer, reflection by reflection, confession by confession, nourishing our souls with the wise teachings that infuse our day-long sojourn in eternity.
Of course, we have a lot of work to do today; the work of self-interrogation is demanding, and potentially exhausting. And yet, what a blessing to have this gift of a day, when we can set aside the preoccupations and tasks that consume our days, day after day, and immerse ourselves in this sacred moment.
But then, it is only one day. As we approach the concluding hours, and the sun sets, what will we take with us? What spiritual nourishment? What insights about ourselves and our relationships with others? What might we learn from this day out of the routine of our daily lives that might make a difference to the days, weeks, and months that lie ahead?
Before we turn to the concluding prayers of our Kol Nidrei service, here are three suggestions, drawn from the unique atmosphere of this unique day.
My first suggestion is about developing our capacity for attention. On Yom Kippur we are called to pay attention, to focus our attention on what really matters, on how we go about our daily lives, on our values, and how we practice them, on how we take care of ourselves and our relationships, on how we relate to those around us in our community and in the wider society, on how we take responsibility for making a contribution to the repair of the world.
So, how do we cultivate our capacity for attention? In order to be able to become more attentive, we need to practice pausing before we go onto the next thing. One of the principal functions of reciting a blessing before we eat, for example, is to pause and appreciate what we are about to enjoy; to take a moment to reflect on the blessing of food. Pausing also helps to inhibit the inclination to multitask. If I can’t pay attention to the one thing I’m doing, how can I possibly pay attention when I’m doing several things at once?
When we pause to pay attention, we interrupt the ceaseless rush and repetition of every day and create the possibility of making a discovery that might take us in a new direction. Let me share an example of a familiar story recounted in the Torah in the Book of Exodus, chapter 3. The whole epic tale of the liberation of our ancestors from slavery may never have been told and written down had it not been that Moses paid attention to the bush that was burning in the scorching heat of the desert. Imagine if Moses had not turned aside to look (Ex. 3:3), but rather, had just walked on, and continued with his shepherding duties: no encounter with the ineffable presence that called him to return to Egypt and demand that Pharaoh free the slaves. No Exodus. No Sinai. No transformation of a rabble of ex-slaves into a people, who would journey with the ineffable presence for millennia. No Torah. No festivals. No descendants to gather together as we are doing this evening on Erev Yom Kippur.
My second suggestion is intrinsically connected to paying attention and pausing: slowing down. We drive ourselves on day after day. We are also driven on day after day. I’m 71 years old now, and as I look back, I’m so aware of how life has got faster and faster. This is particularly noticeable in our communications. People used to write letters, and an exchange of letters could take days. Then fax machines came along, and with it the demand to deal with the communication on the same day. Then email, and a ceaseless supply of emails into our inboxes, forcing us to respond as quickly as we can to ensure that the list of the ‘unread’ doesn’t get longer and longer. And alongside email, texting, recently superseded by the incessant flow of WhatsApp messages. Personally, one of the ways I’m trying to cultivate slowness is by setting my own pace, rather than being driven on by the continuing flow of communications.
There are other ways of slowing ourselves down. Whatever activity we are engaging in, we can do it at a slower rhythm. Rather than being driven by the need to get a job done, and being outcome-oriented, we can enter into it, and derive meaning and even enjoyment from doing it. Following this intensively hot summer, an obvious example is watering gardens and plants. In many regions of the country, there have been hosepipe bans, so gardeners have had to resort to using watering cans. They have also had to be selective about which plants to water. One thing that my spouse, Jess, has tried, is using a smaller watering can. This involves making more frequent trips to the diminishing water-butts, and so takes much longer, but also means she can pay more attention to the individual plants as she waters them. Mindfulness, originally a Buddhist concept, has become popular in recent years. Some of us may have already adopted a mindful approach to how we live. For those who haven’t, being mindful about what we do, is a good way of cultivating our ability to pay attention, pause, and slow down.
We can find a wonderful example of the gift of slowing down, and inhabiting slowness with focused effort, in the account of the building of the mishkan, the Tabernacle in the wilderness. The immense detail we find when we read the accounts in the concluding chapters of Exodus, beginning at Exodus 25, give us a sense of how absorbing the construction task was for B’tzalel, the chief craftsman, and all the other craftspeople involved (Exodus 31:1-11). All those glorious materials (Exodus 25:3-7), carefully measured, crafted, and arranged, for the tent itself and its different compartments, for every single utensil and item of furniture, not least for the m’norah, the two altars, and the table, and also for the priestly garments. And apart from the painstaking care required for all these tasks, since the mishkan and everything in it was portable, the Levites, who had the responsibility for the porterage of the mishkan, and all its special utensils and furnishings, also had to take great care to ensure its safe transportation through the wilderness (Numbers 1:50-51; 3:6-37). If it’s hard to imagine how difficult a task that was, just think of the lengths taken in the summer to transport the Bayeux tapestry safely from Normandy to the British Museum in London[1].
Cultivating slowness enables us to craft our own lives with patience and care. Cultivating slowness may also be necessary as an antidote to the hyper-speed AI revolution. Of course, the development of artificial intelligence is already making a huge difference to medical diagnosis and treatment, and also has a host of other benefits, not least the ability to speed up the process of analysing huge volumes of data.[2] But the exponential growth of AI, forces us to ask: what do we lose on a personal level when we resort to using AI? My own answer is that we forfeit, not only our special human capacity for creativity, but our own individual and unique voice. My new book, Breaking Binaries,[3] is the product of my thought, research, creative endeavour, and almost five years of labour at my desk. Certainly, AI can summon up information, and write a coherent article, or even book, on any topic, but the creative spark that is generated when an individual writes is completely lost. And it’s not only an issue that is confined to writing. AI is being used to create art?[4] Can art created by AI be called art? Similarly, AI music offerings ‘are flooding streaming platforms’.[5] Do we want this?
During a breakout group at a rabbinic meeting in the summer, one of my colleagues commented that ‘unlike human beings, AI has no history, and no vision of the future’. Yes, AI can do things at stupendous speed that no human being, however brilliant, could ever accomplish. AI has its place. But at this juncture, when AI is speeding away exponentially, perhaps, we should devote some thought to putting AI in its place, while simultaneously advocating for being limited mortals and embracing our human limitations. That’s my third suggestion of a possible outcome we could develop out of our experience of this unique day. Alongside paying attention, pausing, and cultivating slowness, let’s reflect on what it is about our human limitations that we want to hold onto.
I can think of a few. The capacity to be overtaken by a sense of awe and wonder when we are in nature, and immerse ourselves in that moment. The capacity to appreciate ‘small joys’, even in the midst of difficult or painful circumstances. The capacity for acceptance in the face of terminal illness. The effort involved in doing a time-consuming task, like preparing a special meal, making a birthday card for a loved one, cleaning the oven, or weeding; the list of possible time-consuming tasks is endless.
Significantly, we can find in the two accounts of creation at the beginning of the Book of Genesis, contrasting models for how to be human. In the first account in Genesis chapter 1, the human is at the pinnacle of creation with a license to dominate and subdue every other creature and form of life (Gen. 1:26-28). In the second account, in Genesis chapter 2, the human has the more modest responsibility of working and maintaining a garden (Gen. 2:15). Interestingly, as I demonstrate in the last chapter of Breaking Binaries, both accounts offer hints that for all our distinctiveness as humans vis-à-vis other forms of life, we share essential qualities with all that lives. In the first account that inextricable connection is expressed in the description of each creature as nefesh chayyah, a ‘living being’ (Gen. 1:20-21). In the second account, that inextricable connection is expressed in the very formation of the human – ha-adam – from the dust of the ground – ha-adamah (Gen.2:7). The AI Revolution demonstrates that for all our powers, humans are not all-powerful. Perhaps, we would do better to remind ourselves of what we share with all that lives, and limit our aspirations, so that we can devote our time and energies to taking care of our beautiful blue planet, our only home.
I hope that we all find meaning and purpose in this unique day. I also hope that we can draw on what it teaches us as we re-enter the world the day after Yom Kippur, and the New Year begins in earnest. The world, after all, is in turmoil on every level – economic, political, ecological, spiritual. In the face of all these challenges, it is easy to give in to despair. It is also easy to get caught up in social media representations that feed despair, that make us desperate to escape, shut out the world and hibernate as much as we can. But these are urges that for the sake of our lives, our communities, our humanity, our world, we need to try to resist. Thinking about the qualities I’ve talked about this evening as resources, can help us cultivate such resistance because they help to build resilience; they enable us to develop patience and the determination needed to commit to the struggle of repairing the world; they foster a spirit of Hope so that we can envision a better future, and feel that it is possible to make it happen. There are no instant fixes and solutions; there is only patient and persistent effort. May this unique day nourish us, and inspire all our efforts to renew our lives and the life of the world in the days that lie ahead.
And let us say: Amen.
Rabbi Elli Tikvah Sarah
Leicester Progressive Jewish Congregation
Erev Yom Kippur, 20 September 2026 / 10 Tishri 5787
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